WE’VE GOT THIS!
Catherine Cook-Cottone, representing Yogis in Service
What are the stories that move us? The first man on the moon, the 83 year old who finishes the marathon, the soldier who saves his comrades despite incoming fire, the inner city kid who makes it to- and through- graduate school and returns to bring her neighborhood up, the mother who risks her life to save the life of her child, the young woman who drops the cultural narrative that objectifies women and lives from power and inner beauty, the sports teams that- against all odds- win.
These are our heroes. What makes someone a hero? Heroes are those who are noted for feats of courage or purpose. They have looked challenge in the eyes and said, “I’ve got this” and they do! People like Dan Nevins.
“In May 2008, Nevins was awarded the George C. Lang Award for Courage, the highest award bestowed by Wounded Warrior Project. Although Nevins was a highly decorated soldier, the Courage Award remains his most significant honor. Dan gives credit to Wounded Warrior Project for his successful rehabilitation,positive attitude, “can do” spirit, and more importantly his passion for helping his fellow warriors in any way he can. On March 1, 2009 Nevins joined Wounded Warrior Project in an official capacity, and now serves as director of Warriors Speak, a prestigious group of wounded warriors and caregivers who have been selected to share their personal, inspirational stories of courage and integrity with the public. By sharing his own story and personal accomplishments, Nevins is an inspiration to his peers and the warriors he serves. He recently climbed mount Kilimanjaro with two of his fellow wounded warriors and feels honored to be a part of an organization so significant in the lives of our nation’s military heroes and their families.” http://www.bushcenter.org/people/dan-nevins
At a certain point, Dan- like all heroes- probably said to himself something like this, “Dan- I am here for you. I see you. Breathe and be present. You’ve got this!”
I had the honor of teaching yoga along with Dan Nevins and a group of amazing yoga teachers (i.e., heroes = see the list below), in the Yoga Garden, at the White House for the White House Easter Egg Roll (WHEER 2015) as part of First Lady Michelle Obama’s Let’s Move and Gimme Five Initiatives http://www.cnn.com/2015/04/06/politics/michelle-obama-easter-dance/
What were we up to? Sharing yoga.
Why share yoga? Because yoga is a powerful tool for self-regulation, health, and creating a life in which anything is possible.
How does yoga do this? Read this….
So, you know those hero stories? Like I said- they are the stories of individuals who, despite challenge and struggles, “pulled it together” and persevered. That is, they integrated mind and body in service of their mission, goal, and dharma- and did it! This is yoga- yoga yokes- it integrates- it pulls you together so you can say- from a very powerful and integrated place- “I’ve got this!” and with practice YOU DO!
So what are you yoking? What are you integrating in your yoga?
Your material self– your body.
Your energy self– your breath, movement, and processes of the body (some call this spirit- the spirit it takes to win the game, to persevere despite all messages to the contrary, to know you and what you are up to matters).
Your dharma– a Sanskrit word that means “your reason for being.”
It is our charge to nurture each of the three. Together, these three aspects of self can create a life of unlimited possibility- a hero life. Neglect any one of those three and you can lose or miss out on your story. And this- this is the really interesting thing- if you don’t take the challenge; if you pass up the opportunity to integrate body, spirit, and dharma- there is no compelling narrative. You won’t be your own or anyone else’s hero. There is no, “I’ve got this…”
It goes like this- at birth, we are a beautiful bundle of humanity full of energy and life. However, aside from some rudimentary reflexes and neurophysiological patterns that set the sleep-wake and hunger-satiety cycles, attachment process and growth into motion, we are far from integrated. We are a set of reactions to both internal cues/signals and external experiences.
Each day we are alive, we have the opportunity to become more integrated. As human beings develop, they become more capable of intentional action. Repeated practice of intentional action integrates you. Dan Siegel has done a wonderful job in several of his books describing what neurophysiological integration looks like (see The Developing Mind and Mindsight). An integrated human is flexible, adaptive, coherent, energized, and stable. Trust me, these are things you want and nurturing your physical and energetic self in service of your dharma will get you there.
The most effective way to do this is to live ON PURPOSE. To live on purpose is to be present- body and breath and to know and be in service of your dharma- intentionally every day. It looks like this:
When we are little and developing, our parents help keep us together, integrated. In a funny way, they help us be in our yoga- our integration. Of course, lots of stuff can happen on the way that is dis-integrating. Things like trauma, divorce, stress, war, accidents, injuries, etc.. When these things happen, effective parents and loved ones help their children pull things back together, they help them re-integrate. They tell their children, “I am here for you. I see you. Breathe and be present. You’ve got this!”
As we move into adolescence and adulthood, it becomes our responsibility to self-integrate. This process involves staying present, breathing, and taking care of your body. It is the process of telling yourself, “I am here for you. I see you. Breathe and be present. You’ve got this!”
It also involves realizing your dharma, your reason for being. It starts small. It starts with practicing with intentions. Small accomplishable intentions like- “I will finish my homework,” and “I will make my bed.” Even tiny efforts, help fuse your material self and energetic/spirit self. For example, as I type, my material-self fingers are moving as my energetic body drives them- why? So that I can type this message- my intention is to share yoga with you. And so I type- on purpose and with purpose- I type as a form of yoga.
As we mature we extend out intentions to larger things, into goals: “I will get good grades this year,” and “I will make the team.” Once we are old enough, developed enough, it is time to get present to dharma- the BIG ON PURPOSE. It is time to begin living intentionally toward your reasons for being. You move toward your BIG “I’ve got this!” With presence (I am here for you), awareness (I see you), and breath- you will find you dharma.
Yoga does this. There are other pathways. Still, yoga was built for this. It makes sense then that yoga practice has changed my life. It has made me a healthier and better person. As yoga began to change my life, I wanted to understand how and why and to share it with anyone who would listen. I started researching yoga in 2002 as a way to prevent eating disorder among young girls (see http://www.amazon.com/Girls-Growing-Wellness-Balance-Empower/dp/0615737609/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&qid=1428514195&sr=8-4&keywords=cook-cottone). I wanted to help young girls learn tools that could help them face the, relational, cultural, and media challenges presented to them daily- and I did!
It was this kind of being ON PURPOSE that helped open door to more being ON PURPOSE. It is powerful stuff. It is a magnet of awesome. It helps you find other people who are BEING ON PURPOSE- and you help each other. It is what we call generative. And so I met Leah Cullis (http://leahcullis.com)
…..and I got the chance to BE ON PURPOSE together- with a bunch of other awesome ON PURPOSE people at the White House Easter Egg Roll- 2015!
The WHEER 2015! YAY!!!
What now? What do I do? When you are living on purpose- those answers come easy- what did I do? I aligned with my ON PURPOSE. So, when I had the chance to teach yoga at the White House, I thought I would share a story that I use when I work with young girls. It is a story of a little frog who went to warrior school [and truth be told- this little frog is a lot like me- and warrior school- is a lot like yoga]. I thought to myself, “Catherine- I am here for you. I see you. Breathe and be present. You’ve got this!” This is what I did….
Little Frog Goes to Warrior School
“You see there is a lake in the Adirondacks called Brantingham Lake. It is there that I love to do sun salutations on the dock, paddle board, and swim (we did sun salutation A’s- in the Washington DC sunshine- ahhhhh).
At this lake, there are dragonflies and frogs. We can do yoga in the shapes of dragonflies and frogs (and we did!).
And maybe, not too very long ago, there was a little frog who was a little afraid of everything (we curled up in a little ball- balasana).
Little Frog longed to be big and strong, steady and sure. She wanted to be like- what they call- tadasana- or LIKE A MOUNTAIN (we did mountain pose).
She heard of this place called warrior school. A place where she could learn to be like the warrior frogs- those who share what the love without fear. Her heart said “Little Frog, you must go.”
Little Frog needed to go across the water to get to warrior school and so we took a boat- that is-we did boat pose and sang, “Row, row, row your boat….” Until we go there.
At warrior school- you guessed it- there were lots of chances for Little Frog to learn warrior poses! Little Frog learned all sorts of warrior asanas (postures) and strong warrior thoughts (Mantras).
I am strong!
I am brave!
I am a warrior!
She learned to breathe in strong thoughts and breathe out worries. She learned to hold warrior energy in her body. She was present and mindful, breathed into to her warrior ones, and twos, and threes, and she practiced her words ‘I am strong! I am brave! I am a warrior!”
With her new warrior skills she headed back to the lake- by boat of course! She thought to herself, ““Little Frog- I am here for you. I see you. Breathe and be present. You’ve got this!”
With her big strong courageous heart, Little Frog headed back to play with her friends.
Together they hopped and then did tree pose! (yes we did!).
Then, to celebrate Little Frog’s gradation, we did a traditional White House Easter Egg Roll, Yoga Garden down dog bridge- and all the little warrior frogs in class got to run through the warrior bridge to celebrate!!!! Last, just like every good graduation party- we danced, and danced, and danced, until it was time for the next awesome yoga class!”
When Little Frog, and I, got grounded and integrated- we could be up to our ON PURPOSE. When we got present to, “I am here for you. I see you. Breathe and be present.” We could be up to our “I’ve got this!” Little frog and I both went on to teach the powerful tools of yoga to others- Little Frog at Brantingham Lake- near my parents lovely camp and me- right in Buffalo- at the University at Buffalo as an associate professor, as a yoga instructor at Power Yoga Buffalo, and through Yogis in Service (http://yogisinservice.org/) as we provide access to yoga to anyone who is interested in learning.
When you get your material self and your energetic self together- its dharma that happens- big beautiful ON YOUR PURPOSE dharma- and trust me “You’ve got this.”
So say it with me, “YOUR NAME HERE- I am here for you. I see you. Breathe and be present. You’ve got this!” and you will!
Thank you to Michelle Obama’s Let’s Move and Gimme Five campaigns!
Congratulations Little Frog and all of the powerful teachers that inspired me throughout the day!
MEET AMAZING WHEER 2015 THE TEAM!!!
THANK YOU to organizer and founder Leah Cullis http://leahcullis.com
“Since 2009 Yoga has been a part of the annual White House Easter Egg Roll on the South Lawn. I am grateful and deeply honored to have organized the Yoga Garden, the incredible team of teachers, and to have been a part of this event to share yoga in “America’s Back Yard”.
Along with Yoga the White House has hosted numerous activities designed to encourage “America’s youth to lead healthy and active lives,” according to a White House press release. Other activities have included cooking classes, basketball, storytelling, dancing, tours through the White House garden, the traditional Easter Egg roll and much more. The White House Easter Egg Roll is the largest public event held at the White House for the last 135 years. An unprecedented 30,000 families experienced Yoga with each event in 2009, 2010, 2011 and 2012. The Obama family has given the traditional event a twist, turned it into an active family oriented day, and include Yoga as part of the celebration.
Read more about my experience teaching yoga at the White House in Mantra Yoga + Health Magazine. http://mantramag.com/first-lady-plants-yoga-garden-leah-cullis/”
THANK YOU! White House Easter Egg Roll Teachers
Peg Mulqueen- Washington DC area- http://pegmulqueen.com
Claudia Cavazza- Washington DC- Community Relations lululemon Ω athletica
Faith Hunter- Washington DC area- http://www.faithhunter.com/
Michelle Kelsey Mitchell- Washington DC area- http://yokid.org/about/founders/
Rachel Dolan- Washington DC area- http://www.rachelleighdolan.com/
Caroline Lowe- Washington DC area
Jafar Alexander- Washington DC area- http://www.belovedyoga.com/about-us/beloved-yoga-staff/
Ahmed Jabali-Nash- Washington DC area
Elizabeth Burris- Washington DC area- http://www.acroyoga.org/app-teacher-directory/elizabeth-burris
Justin Blazejewski- Washington DC area- http://www.acroyoga.org/app-teacher-directory/justin-blazejewski
Olivia Barnett- Washington DC area- http://www.positiveenergyyoga.net/about.aspx
Jessica Micheletti- Sacramento, CA http://www.baronbaptiste.com/community/teacher/jessica-micheletti/
Keith Mitchell, LA, CA- http://www.keithmitchell59.com/#intro
Dan Nevis, Jacksonville, FL- http://www.bushcenter.org/people/dan-nevins
Tonya Farmer, NYC- http://www.pranapoweryoga.com/teachers/tanya-farmer/
Bari Koral, NYC- http://barikoral.com/
Nicholas Giacomini and Amanda Giacomini, Point Reyes, CA- http://www.mcyogi.com/
Chris Lucas, North Hampton, MA- http://www.baronbaptiste.com/community/teacher/christopherlucas/
Nancy Sheridan, Houston, TX- http://www.baronbaptiste.com/community/teacher/nancy-sheridan/
Roger Rippy and Albina Rippy Houston, TX- http://texasyogaconference.com/albina-and-roger-rippy/
Photos from Meghan Powell Photography http://www.meghanpowellphotography.com/
More here in the Buffalo News about Catherine Cook-Cottone’s WHEER 2015 trip http://www.buffalonews.com/storyimage/BN/20150406/CITYANDREGION/150409523/AR/0/AR-150409523.jpg&maxW=960